Could you imagine that I have been seeing this guy for about seven months now and I am still sleeping with my child’s father?
The thing is my child’s father still treats me like his woman even if he knows I am in a relationship, but the other guy treats me like a queen. I don’t know what to do. They both finance me, they both care.
My current boyfriend has no idea that I am still intimate with my daughter’s father. What should I do? Keep doing what am doing or break it off with my child’s father? Note my daughter knows nothing about my current boyfriend.
Dear Miss: You’re salop to the core. Though your daughter knows nothing about this, what kind of example are you setting for her? It seems like the sex is what’s keeping you glued to your ex. And the money is what’s keeping you entangled in this mess.
Your boyfriend treats you like a queen yet you still cheat on him. You do not love your current boyfriend. Trust me, you don’t.
I won’t tell you what to do. But ask yourself these questions: who do have feelings for the most? Who treats you better? Why did you break up with your ex? If he was so good, why did you break up with him? What attracted you to your current boyfriend? Once you answer those questions, you should have a clearer idea of what to do.
In the meantime, take a break from the salop life and think carefully about what and who you want.
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