Young man expecting an unwanted child

Young man expecting an unwanted child

Dear Willie: I am in some deep drama. I got a girl who I was messing around with pregnant.

It was a total mistake and I really didn’t mean to have no child now. I am a 28-year-old carefree guy, love having a good time. From man to man what do I do?

Dear mister: If you don’t want to settle down that is up to you, but at least be more mature about it.

The most advice I can give you is to support the girl you impregnated and be a father and a daddy to the child. Be responsible about your actions and if you claim to be a man you should act and treat the situation like a man.

Maybe you can even grow to love the mother of your child.

Willie.

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45 COMMENTS

  1. You shoulda think before u act. Now man -up and take your responsebility as father. Take care of the young lady. When your baby is born you will have to care for him/her for the next eighteen years. So stop your F.... up . Thats your problem not the tax payers.

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  2. avitay ! at 28 ur still carefree. Man grow the freak up and take care of your child. is the carefree that have you in that position. Chuppppppzz tan

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  3. just a girl you were messing around with .. why have unprotected sex? what did you expect to happen... boy its time to wake up and check yourself talking about you 28 and carefree choops is as u carefree u get the girl pregnant... and i blaming her too next time both of u guys use protection,accept responsibility for you indiscriminate actions boy and man up!!!!!!! the baby is going to be here sooner or later like it or not u now have responsibility take care of your child give.. comfort, love, and care!! who knows maybe that's the only one u'll ever have.. and its a lesson to you.. Dont make children with people you aren't serious about being with or ready to be in a committed relationship

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  4. You're 28 years old, not 18 years old. Living a promiscuious life has its disadvantages. We all make mistakes which either makes us, breaks us or teaches us. Alot of peoole believe that termination is ok but it has severe consequences for women. Settle down and be a part of your child's life.

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  5. If you didnt want a baby you should have put a cap on it. Now the baby is going to come one day man up and get your act to work hard to feed, clothe, and a roof over his/ head for the next eighteen years. Good luck

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  6. he needs to grow up!!I can"t believe people still don"t wear condoms when they fooling around!!!With HIV on the rise how does he know he does not have HIV also???My advice to you buddy go get tested before you want to be "FREE"

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  7. Your mistake was acting the fool, being immature in thinking there would be no repercussion from having unprotected sex. Wake up! No baby is a a mistake, whether you want it or not. Step up, man up and support your baby mama and especially the child. Having a baby is not the end of your life, just a new chapter.

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  8. dude u sorry to hear this. but even if u had unprotected sex, u should bail and ejaculate anywhere else.

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  9. 28 isn't too young to father a kid. Things happen, and this might be the only kid you ever father; so consider yourself lucky.
    This kid could be the only person to come visit you at the hospital.
    Might be the one to push you around in a wheelchair.
    Might be the one to give you a dollar when you are broke, etc., etc.
    Don't be like me; take care of your kid.

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  10. I know what that feels like to have the child surprise. But there is a time for every thing. You never know that baby may very well save your life.As time goes by u will hate the fact the u did not want them and they make u a new man

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  11. Man, you must have been hitting those sweet, sweet sweet sugar walls like a "run-a-way crazy mini bus driver" all night.
    And exploded and started flowing in those sweet sugar walls. Some Lucian women have very tight and sweet sugar walls.
    I bet you nearly got a heat-attack during this process.

    Kinda reminded me when I was hitting it from the back with my first GF.
    She was really good man.

    You must be a novice to the trade man.lol 🙂

    Your problem, not mine. 🙂
    Lmao.

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  12. Son, there are three easy things you could do.
    1. Go to the grocery store and buy a packet or jar of coffee (Nescafe will do fine).
    2. Go to bed early with the coffee under your pillow. (Make sure you get a good, long rest).
    3.Lastly, but most importantly, wake up and smell the coffee...

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  13. Next time use a condom coco.... right now I hv 2 say to u.. Feed ur baby... love n respect ur baby mama... right now she needs u

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  14. Mr. Man you should of ask question before sexing this young lady . You at 28 years old is very selffish you are thinking about ur self what about the young lady . I had my first child at 25 i was on my own way before that and i never ask no one nothing i ride i kno the ride had a price and i was willing to pay the price and am happy today so face up grow up put a man head on you

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