Woman sexually aroused by her best friend’s bf

Woman sexually aroused by her best friend’s bf

Dear Willie: I have been living in the U.S for 10 years and recently visited my island St. Lucia for the Jazz Fest. I was so happy to reunite with my best friend whom I’ve known since high school. Right now I am 31 years.

While the circumstances under which I was visiting was happy, I have developed strong feelings toward her boyfriend. Three of us have been liming together a lot and every time I’m around him I get sexually aroused; it’s as if his spirit is a magnet to mine. I’d love nothing more to get with him. He’s so friendly that we already have a good camaraderie. I leave here in a week’s time. Should I tell him?

Dear miss: This fascination people have to spill out everything they feel should really not be. Some things are just better left unsaid. Besides, it’s not like you will be seeing him constantly that you feel you won’t be able to control your emotions. You just have to respect that this is your friend’s boyfriend and it’s only ethical and moral not to act on those feelings for the guy.

For the few days you have left here you should try hanging more with your girl friend or if he is coming along double date to take away from him being a distraction. Good luck.

Willie.

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  1. Y are u women such bitches find your own man u slut.i wouldnt want to have a friend like u go back where u come from u home wrecker

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  2. I feel very sorry you're in this situation my dear. I am a woman I made a commitment never to even watch my best friend's or no family's man. I have no interest in them at all. If any friend or family man disrespects me I'll surely put them straight.
    Do not trade anything for the relationship you and your friend has. Please don't cause her any pain "if" she is your best friend, this is not what friends are for !! sometimes he is so nice to you only because you are his GF's best friend. Don't say a word to any of them. Pretend like you never felt that way. Go to a priest for confession, ask him to pray with you and invite your best friend out just to tell her how much you appreciate her friendship and please mean every word you say to her. Satan is playing games on you cause he do not like to see any friendship prosper nor last. Good luck my dear God will sent you a handsome gentleman keep on praying.

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  3. that (woman) is just a hongryyy trifling slut..... u gonna do what you want anyways ou jus say a mama salop...... da mun shud have a ole john..... leave the girl man alone mama chein arshay sa ou ..... #mamapinears

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  4. Tahahaha......you guys killed me
    I believe that girl just sent that for attention
    A real woman won't even think of such
    I won't give any advice
    #waistofmytime

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    • @OH LAWWWD I SO AGREE WITH YOU... WHAT A WASTE .. A RESPECTABLE WOMAN WOULDNT RESPOND LIKE THAT.... ATTENTION SEEKER.. MUST BE LAUGHING HER ASS OUT... CHOOPZ...

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  5. As a dude I advice you to tell both of them.
    Together.....
    Then lets hope the man doesn't see you as a b***h and he wants you...I'd fuck you if I were in his place....full you to the brim with my wood....push it doen your thoat...you know how you want it...then let you know how much I enjoyed the ride...since you'd be leaving soon I'd continue my relation with my gf who is actually a human being and not a hoe like you...btw I'd use a condom cause things like you carry so much baggage....you never know
    #%%just saying

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  6. Is it my fault he arouses me???
    Don't blame me for his sexiness. Hey she's my best fiend in the world and I always thought she shouldn't have gotten herself a fine man like that. Women would want him. And I guess my judgement was correct because here I am fantasising about my best friend's man all because she chose to go for a fine one. I love her tho. She's the best friend anyone can have.

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  7. you should spend more time with your girlfriend and not her man. If you tell him you may lose both him and your friend if his am honest boyfriend. be very careful and find your own man to arouse you.

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  8. BA u made laugh really hard today, same thing I said, the woman was asking for advise and its up to her to do or not to do, people getting on, calling people names and all, smh, I'm not saying she should or shouldn't, she has a mind of her own, at the end of the day, she will feel it. An people getting so worked up over what she said. I hope nobody who called her names gets in a situation like that. Cuz u never know what happens. Never say never!!! BA continue giving ur comments tan don't mind those people Loº°˚˚°ºoL.

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  9. People people!!
    My aim was not to waste your time
    It was simply me asking for advice
    If you can't give advice without the name calling and insults please keep your comments to yourselves
    Ps. Me saying that I can and will have him simply meant that your name calling won't change my feelings
    If I receive advice from you I shall take it.
    But as go the insults.. Nah uh
    Nope I'm not accepting it
    If you give a civilized advice I will pay attentions
    Thank you.
    And @Lucian...please don't judge me. You don't know me like that.

    Peace

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