Dear Willie: I have been living in the U.S for 10 years and recently visited my island St. Lucia for the Jazz Fest. I was so happy to reunite with my best friend whom I’ve known since high school. Right now I am 31 years.
While the circumstances under which I was visiting was happy, I have developed strong feelings toward her boyfriend. Three of us have been liming together a lot and every time I’m around him I get sexually aroused; it’s as if his spirit is a magnet to mine. I’d love nothing more to get with him. He’s so friendly that we already have a good camaraderie. I leave here in a week’s time. Should I tell him?
Dear miss: This fascination people have to spill out everything they feel should really not be. Some things are just better left unsaid. Besides, it’s not like you will be seeing him constantly that you feel you won’t be able to control your emotions. You just have to respect that this is your friend’s boyfriend and it’s only ethical and moral not to act on those feelings for the guy.
For the few days you have left here you should try hanging more with your girl friend or if he is coming along double date to take away from him being a distraction. Good luck.
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