He tells me over and over he wants a child (daughter) — and nothing as yet. I’ve done everything that is said to be done to conceive and I’m at the point of giving up.
But I’m beginning to suspect something here. He said he had an operation on his testicles a while back. He’s a drinker and when he drinks he tells me he already has six children and the child I want from him I will not get it because he can’t make kids again. Over and over again.
I know I don’t have the health problem because I went for number of check-ups and the doctors say I’m fine but he refuses to check up on himself.
The clock is ticking and I can’t bare with it again. What should I do?
Dear Miss: It appears your boyfriend does not have the balls to tell you the truth. From all indications, it appears he is the problem.
When one drinks or smokes to a certain point, they are usually bold enough to say what had been hidden in their subconscious.
If this man refuses to check upon himself, then there is nothing you can do. Can this issue make or break your relationship? Is having a child important in keeping this relationship together? Think about it.
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