Problem conceiving

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Problem conceiving


Dear Willie:
 My boyfriend and I have been trying to have a family for nine months now and it has been a rocky road.

He tells me over and over he wants a child (daughter) — and nothing as yet. I’ve done everything that is said to be done to conceive and I’m at the point of giving up.

But I’m beginning to suspect something here. He said he had an operation on his testicles a while back. He’s a drinker and when he drinks he tells me he already has six children and the child I want from him I will not get it because he can’t make kids again. Over and over again.

I know I don’t have the health problem because I went for number of check-ups and the doctors say I’m fine but he refuses to check up on himself.

The clock is ticking and I can’t bare with it again. What should I do?

Dear Miss: It appears your boyfriend does not have the balls to tell you the truth. From all indications, it appears he is the problem.

When one drinks or smokes to a certain point, they are usually bold enough to say what had been hidden in their subconscious.

If this man refuses to check upon himself, then there is nothing you can do. Can this issue make or break your relationship? Is having a child important in keeping this relationship together? Think about it.

Willie

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  1. Lady RUN. Men don't stay because of kids! They will quicker stay because of a house. Listen the fucking drank has told you the truth stop painting it in the colors that you want to see.

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  2. The man tell u he had operation on his balls...wat u think that means? Mate had vasectomy n cant give u no baby...

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  3. He tells her he wants kids probably so she can give him the mizzy shot, but he knows her efforts are in vain. Chick u better go have sex with some guy and tell him majee noir goss u

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  4. either ur eggs scrambled or da mun firing blanks lol. if u say u do ur check up n he eh goin n get checked he kno he firing blanks n eh want to admit it

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  5. wow....already has six kids...where are these children's mothers? why did he NOT stay in a relationship with them? AND YOU DESPERATELY TRYING TO HAVE HIS CHILD? Go ahead my girl...he will stay with you when he impregnates yo...DUMB GIRL! Some women eh? Didn't realize St Lucia has so many STUPID, BRAINLESS women...DEAR WILLIE IS BRINGING D TRUTH TO LIGHT!!!!!!

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  6. BAD ENOUGH ST LUCIA EH HAVE GOOD MUN...NOW MUN FIRING BLANKS.....IT GOOD...SUPPLY AN DEMAND!!...TWINS SOLD HERE!! LINK UP!

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  7. Famm oui toup couyon. Smh. The man hv six children already and u want one for him so desperately. Stupid gal.

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  8. he tell you "you not getting kids from him over and over again" but yall still trying...that story makes no sense

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  9. My lady why would u want to be in a relationship and make a child with a man who already have seven children? what salary is a man getting to have such amount of children in St.Lucia in that manioc and cassav time.If he is a millionaire or a chastnet, then fine.

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  10. I agree with 'so vex dere' . you're trying to have a child with a man who already has six children and clearly isn't with any of the mothers. I hope you don't expect that he will stick around for you. On top of that, he refuses to visit a doctor has drinking and smoking habits, not to mention the fact that he blames you for all of this. These are all indicators of how irresponsible he is. Why would you want to burden yourself with a child you won't have a man for their father. Do yourself a favour and skip the emotional abuse; it's time to find someone else.

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  11. He eh want no Chile. Getting woman pregnant makes him feel important and powerful. He want to trap you. RUN

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  12. Only tink i see must b pardner hv a piece of money and u want to inherit dat and the only way is by giving him a yute well cum my 18 will breed u and just gv him a jacket case close lets see how m7ch kids u cannot get cuz he hv to explain how i get pregnant only in st lucia danm bitches

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  13. Why are some women so stupid. Your ans is right der in your letter,the man don't want kids only u do. Hear what u want a girl,u must be a (tet secc) hard hair an must be a collie (cogair) drunkered u must be want child with nice hair. Hahaha aa woye look it.

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  14. Y wud u want a child from a man who already has 6 children and is a frequent drinker (a gorger) some women really stoopid!

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  15. i know of a girl who go engaged to her bf then a few months later she got pregnant.. fwd to today, he married the woman he was cheating on her with and yes she had the child.

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  16. Are u a dec dec or what? U sound like a little child that dont knw life and what they're about.when the man drink he telling u all dat n u soo desperately want to gt pregnant for him u shud be happy u have nooo children for the man... god i swear idk how some of we women think. U shud get pregnant for him as u make the baby he should leave ur scunt... ou twop couyon...ou panni pies eeshe ou vlair yon...the man tell u he want child u nt hearing he have 6 already looooool

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  17. Some women really stupid wii...in the first place y u want a child 4 a womyah??? More so the flipping man has 6 kids what the hell u doing urself that 4? Woman as u said the clock is ticking open ur brains and do what's best for your future...choops

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  18. He’s a drinker and when he drinks he tells me he already has six children and the child I want from him I will not get it because he can’t make kids again. Over and over again.- See more at: http://Omg sometimes I wonder whats going on in some women's head
    Are you and idiot????

    Seriously

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  19. Woman are you stupid???? The man has not married you yet you are trying to get pregnant for him???? Again, I reiterate woman are you stupid???? Get a life and stop acting like your brain is between your legs!!! Worse the man insults you when he has had a few drinks!!! Think with your head and not your vagina!!!!

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    • i agree with you, you should first try to get into a commited relationship.( get married).
      then think about having kids.

      it's possible that the time has come for you two to start having kids , like you said you go checked, now it's up too him get checked.

      please think that he already has 6SIX kids.
      how many moms?
      think about it you really wanna be just another BABY MAMA

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