Patient falling for gynaecologist

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Patient falling for gynaecologist


Dear Willie:
I think I’m falling for my ob/gynaecologist, what should I do?

I went to him for a procedure last week and everything was alright but when I returned this week and he examined me, I started feeling something for him.

Should  I tell him how I feel or just forget about it?

Confused patient.

Dear Confused Patient: If you know that he is married or has a girlfriend, I wouldn’t advise you to tell him; you don’t want to get yourself entangled in a love triangle.

If he’s single, maybe it is okay. However, if he is a real professional, he will not entertain any form of intimate relationship with his patients. Health care professionals are expected to operate under ethical and moral codes, though some of them don’t.

But if the man is taken, just forget about it, and let him focus on fixing whatever is wrong with your cat or whatever it is that is malfunctioning. That’s what’s more important. Or find another gyno.

This may just be a crush, by the way.

Willie

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  1. woman!!!! common..... i believe you are just entangled in your youthful lust. Have consider the fact that this guy does procedures and examinations for many other females?.Get some self control ok...

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  2. Willie I really love you and I must say not in that way this fool feel. I love your straightforwardness and your good thinking. Please, what profession would falling love with a woman whe cam to have her cat fix by him. Tell her to stay focus and fix her cat as she planned of choose another person hoping she may meet that man somewhere else. Hope he is available. Thats another point, most are not.

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  3. How dear you willie describe womens' private part as "cat"?. My advice to the woman. It's highly impossible to have a relationship with your Gynocoligist or any body in that profession if you are one of their patients. Why don't you have your patner to fullfill your fantasy?

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  4. Having feelings for someone who is feeling up your vagina? How unheard of! Scandalous! Can that really happen?

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  5. @frustrated i was thinking the same thing,he might refer her to another gynaecologist, please lady DO NOT EMBARRASS YOUR SELF AN THE DOCTOR!!

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  6. Who knows what happen when she and the gyno was in the room.It feel sweet so she want more....Do you think its you the only one he is doing that too...ouch .....girl get get a life

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  7. She is lost in lust. Learn to differentiate between torches. The doctor might also be guilty of torching inappropriately.

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  8. im wondering how old this woman is is she young or on menapause or is she even pregnant and going to her normal obgyn loool cuz my gynacologist was cute i liked to see him but i didnt want a relationship

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  9. wat nonsense did i jus read .woman its da man job to examine ur vaginia u tink is urs alone he seein for a day get a hold of ur self and stop makin women luk damn n stuid . i culd understand if u met him outside his work but i mean choops

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  10. woman most men cherish their pepperoni and don't allow any woman to eat it. So patient allow the man to see that his piece of pork he is touching is valuable to eat and keep forever. If u just present it to him just so, he may eat and run.

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  11. Hmm. That is lust. Why is it that us woman not value our selves for what we worth than degrading it. Listen, I am not perfect, when a man look at us in a certain way or tell us something nice that our sinful body wants to hear we think it's love, feelings whatever we call it , (that have happened to me) and after a while all that feeling go away. All man most men wants when they see a woman is the nicely prepared piece of pork, when we give it to any given men just so, they enjoy it and just leave the bone behind.

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  12. Okay let's say you tell him and you guys date or get into a relationship you will feel insecure in that relationship. My dear.. DO - NOT - GO - THERE!

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