He has no kids and to him having one would make him the happiest man alive. The problem is that his girlfriend can no longer conceive. She told him to go outside to have a child if he wants.
I am now pregnant and don’t know what to do. I need advice: should he leave his girlfriend to be with me and his baby or should I leave him alone.
The decision to leave his girlfriend and be with you is his choice. You should speak to him and be frank about your desires.
However, I believe if he wanted to be with you a long time ago, knowing you can conceive (because that’s what he wants as you said), I believe he would’ve done so long ago. If he wanted to be with you, I doubt you would be writing to me asking for advice.
It is possible he only wants you for sex and/or a baby and nothing more. Or, he is not man enough to make a decision in your favour, if that’s what he wants. So speak to him.
I feel sorry for you because you’re pregnant for a man that is not yours and may end up not being yours. You should not have placed yourself in that situation. However, I know crap happens.
Next question is: is the child his? Also, if he decides he does not want to be with you, will you abort or keep the child?
I do not support abortion but at the end of the day you know what’s best for you and anything you do, it will be your choice.
However, as I said before, speak to him about a full-time relationship with you. And in the future, if you’re going to play the jabal role again, do not get pregnant.
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