My husband wants to try new tricks

My husband wants to try new tricks

Dear Willie: My husband of 10 years lately has become fascinated with new tricks. I do not know where this thrill has come from all of a sudden, but I’ve caught him watching porn and even searches for porn websites comes up on his laptop. I fear I could lose him to another woman.

Dear miss: It won’t hurt to have a creative sex life especially with your husband. Although he shouldn’t make a habit of it, I suspect the fascination comes from watching porn. A woman should also aim to please her man, not only with her cooking but in the sheets. Besides whoever said sex should be restricted to a bed and one position is boring. At least he wants to try these new tricks with you. Give it a go. This will spice up your marriage.

Willie.

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31 COMMENTS

  1. YOU BETTER HURRY UP AND DO WHAT DE MAN WANT..SAME ASOO KOTAY TING FOR TEN YEARS
    ..GIRL YOU GO LOSE MATE!

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  2. Girl have u read fifty shades of grey well u need to educate yourself....hehe....b down, sit wine pon it jook pon it and take your ting.Maybe the man tired of rhe samebold positions.spice it up honey.....

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  3. My dear do anything to satisfy your husband except "ANAL" sex. Don't ever allow any man to go there with you!!!!!

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  4. wat d ass, if he want it in a tree, give it to him in a tree. if he want u on your head, go on your damm head. thats wat yourll were doing b4 u were married, why all of a sudden is only d "shees" side shot u givin him in d bed. same way yourll complainin d husband not givin flowers anymore, d fellars have to complain, u not givin d ting like b4. and u better give it b4 he find somebody else to take it from. d porn and d requests is your warning, when he stop askin u for it,then u have to worry.

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  5. Lady take off ur church clothes and go and join ur man in bed eh. whats wrong with a little experimenting with ur husband. Trust me if you don't you will loose him.

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  6. Truth be told it should be the other way around, he shouldn't be watching porn after 10 years, used to watch porn but dat was before my wife lol,only watch it with her now n she asks dat we watch it together,even gives me jokes about how I used to watch it all the time before her,for sum reason porn hasn't been the same since her cuz she knows what shes doing lololol,anyways it's weird a married man watching porn alone,maybe he's trying to freshen up on his moves for his loose lolol

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  7. Lady that is a private issue and it should have been discussed with your husband. That's the only way you can find out if there is a problem and how to fix it, because not even willie can tell you how to satisfy your husband in under 1 minute. However appreciate the fact that there is no doubt that men like a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets most definitely.The reason for his looking at porn could be that is friends keep talking about their over active and exploration sexual life style and he probably thinks that, the sexual relationship is lacking in someway and is trying to correct it after all sex has been there from ancient times and the techniques too numerous to mention, in a sexual relationship there should be giving and receiving of pleasure if the pleasure is one sided then all measures need to be taken to correct it if it is not corrected what do you think will happen.

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  8. like kartel say "freaky gyal ah dem gyal wey mi luv"

    nothing wrong with spicing up the sex life....specially if things hav died down recently. like sum comments said....lady u should atleast be happy he wants to try these new things with you his wife, and not another woman.

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  9. after 10 yrs of the same fing wats wrong wif trying new fings at least he tryin it wif u y ur'll pppl always look for the negative in everyfing ppl plz

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  10. be open to New ideas nothing wrong in pleasing your hubby its not any man. trust me go with an open mind and you both will end up happy I'm sure you don't want him going out there to try with another . give it a try

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  11. What kind of advice is being given by Willie.What about the woman?No regard for women when it comes to sex it is always about pleasing the men.Don't let him force you into doing anything you don't want to do.

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    • is ppl like u dat does cheat and u'll man and ull man does cheat on u'll she never said anyting about force,d man is urs my girl do him all the way he want 2 or u want 2

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  12. the man is just probably tired of the same thing everyday. if I were you I would watch the porn with him and try the new things. I would do that a million times over instead of letting him cheat.

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  13. AA!!! i cyah understand lucian woman at all.. if the man ask to try new things u shouldn't think twice.. he asking YOU!! is when u keep turning him down he will ask someone else...
    what ull lucian woman have in yall head... choopzzzzzzzzzz..... smh

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  14. yh i get the drift that he may be tired of the sex life and wants something new... im not to pleased with the pornbut it may be his source of creativeness rather than us women who read books upon books about achieving orgasms and teaching our men to hit that spot. if i were the wife id take the hint and sure as hell spice up our sex life but its a relationship gosh just talk about your shit ppl.... where is the openness... married for 10 years and there is no clear communication about ur sex life... my lady talk to your lover ask him what he wants surprise him one night and make him stray away from the porn.. or tell him down right you dont appreciate it and it makes you feel insecure about whether he is tempted to get elsewhere... communication ppl... but surprise him darling instead of him surprising u with the new tricks

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  15. The man want to do things you doing outside with your outside man and when you all at home you don't want to do it. when u all inside you all playing like a saint.

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  16. Wifefy this is called paradigm shift.The man was to live in the modern world.What's wrong with that.

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  17. women need to learn to please their husbands. Explore. Try at least once and if you not comfortable say so. Don't try to think where he got it from, men talk to each other. There is nothing wrong trying some new sex act, we try new foods all the time. Stop being complacent and too comfortable when you get married do the stuff you use to do when you were young wild and free. If you don't there are plenty women out there who will do, don't give your man no excuse to cheat.

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  18. Why write Willie and asked for advice.This is a close and shut case lady. Try new things with your man or else he will try it with someone new. The choice is yours deal or no deal hope you get my drift.Go girl make your man halaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. " nice man"

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  19. sweety be happy you know is porn he is watching. At least he is looking for ways to please you. Some men learn new tricks from having other partners. BE HAPPY AND ENJOY THE RIDE at least he is trying to spice up things. Participate, play your part and educate your self too.

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  20. What kind of advice is that?
    They're both in a relationship and should BOTH aim to please each other. It sounds like he's just trying to please himself with his porn fascination.
    She has every reason to be concerned, because he's fantasizing about those women now, and not his wife. Who knows if he will cheat? He's showing some interest in her considering the fact that he's still home doing it with her, but she's just a body for practice and his own pleasures now. Where's the love? How would he feel if she was watching porn and into seeing other men who are perhaps better in several ways than him? Who knows...

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    • why you all always have to be on some feminist guilt trip vibes. what making assume that their is no love shown to the woman, or that the dude would mind the woman looking at porn. why does some of you bitter women always have to try to show men in some negative light. why you can't say that the suffering in a relationship that is void of sex and that he is simply hinting to wifey that there is more out there. all shit that happens is not automatically the fault of some dude, women are not all perfect, many times they are the cause of their men cheating. since many are too stubborn or too proud to change their mindset

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      • Name calling and evading the questions that I asked is a sure way of showing lack of understanding and defeat on the said subject. Cheers.

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  21. THE MAN LOOKING AT PORN SO HE COULD SHOW U ALL TYPE OF SHOTS SIDE SHOTS SITE DOWN SHOTS LOW SHOTS HIGH SHOT ALL KIND OF SHOTS BEHAVE UR SAID LADY THE MAN DOING DAT TO SPICE UP UR SEX LIFE SMH

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  22. So bcuz d man want 2 try new tings is a next woman,he mabe just tired of d same ting all da time,just take ur back and side shot and relax ur seld eh woman lol

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