A few months ago we were engaged in some argument, leading him into sleeping with another woman who I kept asking if he was seeing, and who by chance may be pregnant for him. He says he cheated on me with her because I kept admitting that he was seeing her and that they were only just friends. I only got to know that a few days ago when he was confronted by the girl the night before.
I love him and wants to be his wife but as a result of the disappointing news, I can’t seem to co-operate with the fact that he will be a father to another woman’s baby. He says he loves me and that he’s sorry and that he stills want to get married.
But I am in doubt. I want to know, will it still be the same given the fact that he doesn’t know if he will father that baby and whether it will be a major down-low when we get married?
Question is: am I the reason he cheated? And is this marriage going to work out as it is that the girl and I are enemies?
Dear Miss: No it is not going to work out, in my opinion.
I believe he was seeing this woman before. I am 100% sure he didn’t run out angry and bump into a strange girl, lift up her skirt suddenly and give her some cal.
He would have had to have some prolonged contact with this woman. A woman just doesn’t sleep with a man like that. They have had to get sensual or sexual at some point.
I believe this is a sign to give him back the ring. There are many more men out there sweetie.
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