Our relationship has always been long distance. I go up to see him and he comes down to see me. He is a citizen of Canada because he got married many years ago, but now he is divorced.
Willie I had a conversation with him about us getting married because I’m seeing we are in a relationship that’s back and forth and I want to settle down, start my family etc. When I spoke to him about it, he said oh he can’t get married to me because he is still married.
Willie I know he is not married because when I first met him he told me everything, and I have seen the divorce papers myself. What should I do? Should I end the relationship because clearly he doesn’t want to settle down with me.
Dear Confused: I am wondering, why are you confused? I think he’s a player.
Either he showed you a fake divorce paper or papers of incomplete divorce proceedings which you did not read properly OR, he got married after that without you knowing.
I don’t believe this was a relationship either. How can you be in a long distance relationship for five years? Not like he was going to school. He lives in Canada! So am thinking that after at least two years, one of you would compromise and move in with each other.
It does not appear like anyone was missing anyone. I guess it was just about releasing some water in spare times.
I also believe the guy is not ready for marriage or settling down so he comes up with something.
Well, based on my response, and your letter, you know what to do already.
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