I have threesomes with my man, cook, clean and wash for him but he still cheats

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I have threesomes with my man, cook, clean and wash for him but he still cheats


Dear Willie:
I’ve been in a relationship with this man for about eight years now.

I will admit that when we just met he had a woman, but we still used to see each other on the side. He left his woman about three years ago and came to live with me. We have a two-year-old daughter now.

Willie, I am a bi-sexual and I do all positions in bed with this man. Anything freaky you can think of I do with him. I’ve been with several girls that I bring home and we have threesomes with him.

I am a good cook so he is always well fed. I cook and clean for him. But Willie all that is not enough, the man still finds a way to cheat on me. And what’s burning me is these meg and ugly girls don’t look better than me. Plus the thing is he cheats on me with two to three women. I want to leave him but I always find a way to go back to him.

What more can I do for this man to remain faithful to me?

Dear Miss: A lot of men would love to be in his position.

The truth is men will be men. People do not necessarily change: dogs will be dogs, cheaters will cheaters, especially when they are no longer in love with you. Maybe after eight years, he is tired of you and needs more fresh produce.

You’re also forgetting one detail: this man was a cheater before he became your boyfriend. You caused him to cheat on his woman. So it’s also Karma, which I believe in.

Have you ever discussed this with him? What was his response? How do you know about all the women he is cheating with?

He is the best person to tell you what will stop him. Find out and let us know.

Willie

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  1. He had a women for give years u were with him. U were his jabal. Wtf u think he would do if you are his main chick....lol.....poor u

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  2. It is not rocket science.If a man cheats with you the inevitable OCCURS he will cheat on you.Its most likely his nature.He seems treacherous and unfair.I believe that you can give a man the world,be the most beautiful sexiest woman in the world and he is still going to see something he likes in another woman that you dont have.Just let the guy BE

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  3. Men will always be men.Why encourage a man to sleep with other women in your presence,Theeeee if he is so comfortable in your presence honey he will do it in your absence,You are really naive oh my.You need to stop that behaviour I am pretty sure there is nothing you can do to prevent his cheating.Give it to the Lord you do not need this drama in your life.Embrace yourself I am not judging you we all have done some overwhelming things to please the ones we love but it does not seems he appreciates it.I

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  4. You have a woman/women
    You have him
    You have him with woman/women

    He has woman/women
    He has you
    He has you with woman/women

    Now.. what is the problem?
    Seems all above board.
    The only thing I did not see was.
    Him with men.
    May be that is next.

    You made the bed and you not only don't want to lie in it...

    SCHOOPS

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  5. smh!!are you forgeting what goes around comes right back around..karma baby!!..thats something we just cant run away from... so deal with your shit honey...i suggest that you live him and start off fresh and make sure its with a single man this time...

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  6. this is some really twisted shit first u got the man to cheat when he was with his woman which u did not have any problem with, now he's cheating on u n u have a problem now. secondly u give ur man threesome with ur girl friends but u never said if u ever did any 3sum with ur girl friends men, hummmmm. which means if they can do it for u with ur man ,u can do it with them with their men as well. plz think of what u write b4 u write it.

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  7. What kinda mal-pwop-tae is that?? Choops tun! That is the kind of foolishness that some people like on Dear Willie! Abomination! The thing is, if you want to be freaky with this man, what is left for y'all to do... he now looking for "more freaky" I suppose! It seems like no one cares about STD's, and all them other diseases anymore... just do as you wish! Mercy!

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  8. You encouraged the man to cheat whilst he was with another woman. As far as i am concern you broke up the peoples relationship as well. So what you get now you should take. Now you know how the first woman feels. Stop complaining and deal with you shit in silence.
    Calmer is a bitch, she always comes back to bite you in the ass when you do wrong

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  9. My gosh im a lucian in north America and I will not tolerate that in my home.....I am very open
    minded and I dont place judgement,
    but this is certainly not west Indian
    lifestyle.....firstly this is a breeding
    ground for STD'S and STI'S.....if a man really loves me why would he
    need other women in our bed and if
    He did that would be the last he would hear of me. I would never
    bring myself so low...there is also
    something called swinging in north america where couples go to a
    room like setting and form groups
    of four and they have sex with
    everyone in the group until they feel
    satisfied.....what is becoming of this world.....i hope u and your sex crew are having protected sex.....lets not spoil our Lucian men
    With those three sums otherwise they will be expecting it from all of us......

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  10. when you got promoted to the main chick you created a vacancy for the position of side chick. He is currently interviewing women for that position. So don't be mad

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  11. Time to straighten your life out and live Godly. Put your salvation first; in the end that's the only thing that would matter.