At first her mother did not like me, but after a few months of dating her daughter we got close. Her mother is single. We talk about anything under the sun.
When my girlfriend is not around and I am waiting at her home one day, me and her mom exchanged kisses playfully. This led from one thing to another. We both felt bad and it is killing me inside. Her mother is stressed about it as well. We still talk closely but we have vowed not to go down that path anymore.
Willie, this is burning my conscience. I love my girlfriend and don’t want to lose her but I don’t want to keep this is a secret. I can’t live with it. What should I do? Should I tell her what she and her mother did?
Dear sir: You have already set your own trap to the destruction of your relationship with your girlfriend. Nobody can deal with a partner cheating much less for one that involves their partner and parents having an affair.
At least you have a conscience to feel remorse, and I suggest you tell her and be over with otherwise you will never feel comfortable going to that house to spend time with your girlfriend. Your future with her afterwards can only be determined by her.
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