Dear Willie: My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. We never really had any serious issues but lately there has been some trust issues when it comes to her, since her last vacation where she went away to Canada.
We had just finish having sex when she opened a small box and I discovered an opened empty lubricant wrapper in that box. I then took the wrapper from the box to have a look at it but she tried wrestling with me, even went as far as biting my hand when I clutched the wrapper.
I know that she doesn’t have a dildo so this made me wonder what she used it for. I asked her about it and at first she pretended like she didn’t know, then she said she opened it sometime ago to know what it smells like.
Do you think that she is cheating or she cheated? Because the box came back from her vacation or am I to believe her and give her the benefit of the doubt?
Dear Sir: Your girlfriend is hiding something. After she smelled the lubricant, what did she do with it? Did she eat it? Why is it empty? I know for sure people don’t eat lubricant.
Sounds like your girl had a contingency plan, possibly because her cat is dry. Does your girlfriend have a dry cat issue? If she does then….asaiy.
Sir, it’s clear 1. she is hiding something 2. she is lying 3. it is possible she cheated.
Once anyone is wrestling something from you, they got something to hide.
All I have to say is she won’t come straight so easily unless you got better evidence, but just keep your eyes and ear open. I won’t advise you to break up with her over lubricant wrapper. This is just a wake-up call for you to be smarter, not jumpy. Be smart and don’t push any buttons.
Lay some cheese for the rat and it will surely take the bait.
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