I discovered an empty lubricant wrapper in girlfriend’s box

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I discovered an empty lubricant wrapper in girlfriend’s box


Dear Willie:
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. We never really had any serious issues but lately there has been some trust issues when it comes to her, since her last vacation where she went away to Canada.

We had just finish having sex when she opened a small box and I discovered an opened empty lubricant wrapper in that box. I then took the wrapper from the box to have a look at it but she tried wrestling with me, even went as far as biting my hand when I clutched the wrapper.

I know that she doesn’t have a dildo so this made  me wonder what she used it for. I asked her about it and at first she pretended like she didn’t know, then she said she opened it sometime ago to know what it smells like.

Do you think that she is cheating or she cheated? Because the box came back from her vacation or am I to believe her and give her the benefit of the doubt?

Dear Sir: Your girlfriend is hiding something. After she smelled the lubricant, what did she do with it? Did she eat it? Why is it empty? I know for sure people don’t eat lubricant.

Sounds like your girl had a contingency plan, possibly because her cat is dry. Does your girlfriend have a dry cat issue? If she does then….asaiy.

Sir, it’s clear 1. she is hiding something 2. she is lying 3. it is possible she cheated.

Once anyone is wrestling something from you, they got something to hide.

All I have to say is she won’t come straight so easily unless you got better evidence, but just keep your eyes and ear open. I won’t advise you to break up with her over lubricant wrapper. This is just a wake-up call for you to be smarter,  not jumpy. Be smart and don’t push any buttons.

Lay some cheese for the rat and it will surely take the bait.

Willie

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  1. Young man I was in Canada one time my lips, cayt and nose was feeling so dry. I am very bold so I went to my nephew's room telling him about it. He took me to a store I bought petroleum jelly and lip balm and he came handing me a big tube of lubricant we paid for it and left. Mind you it did stop the dryness I was feeling down there. Maybe your girl is not bold enough to discuss the matter.
    Lubricants are used for different things...

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  2. I dont think she is cheating or have anything to be ashamed about. I think she may be experiencing dryness which can happen depend on the time of the month during the cycle for some women. Some women may feel its something to hide but why...It is ok and is normal.. something to discuss with your partner .If he loves you he will understand and be more gentle during these times. Maybe you can help her apply it..more fun.

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  3. She could be using the lubricant to masturbate when you are not around or maybe just before you come over she lubricates herself because she may be a bit dry down there when you are ready for her? I don't think she is cheating. Vaginal dryness is a common issue and she may not be comfortable disclosing that to you. You may be offended that your efforts to turn her on are not enough that she has to use lubricant.

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  4. Why did she buy it in the first place?? Canada is soo cold mayb she went out of lip balm n she used lubricant Lmao.. i leaving dem women soo fast tan! dts y i cah count how many i pass alredy on my 4hands.. 🙂

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  5. JUST because she has lubricant, SHE CHEATED? Some of you egotistical men think you are ALL THAT! Find it hard to believe that some of you just can't hit the spot????? WHY DO YOU THINK SO MANY WOMEN FAKE ORGASMS?!!! Some of you FAIL!

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  6. If she had ANYTHING to hide, why would she OPEN THE BOX WITH THE EMPTY LUBRICANT WRAPPER IN YOUR PRESENCE, AFTER YOU JUST HAD SEX?????Partner, the girl used that on herself for you, as you can't get her wet enough.....Try hitting the G-SPOT! No need for lubricant! ....Don't be upset...at least she didn't go and get someone to get her WET ENOUGH...She bought lubricant to help....RESPECT THAT!

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  7. You mentioned that she did not have a dildo. Is it possible that she brought one back from Canada and you don't know about it? I would ask her if she had one. Secondly sex could probably be uncomfortable for her as she may not be getting wet as she'd like, maybe she's using it to have sex with you but is too ashame to let you know. Thirdly, she could have cheated who knows!Trust your instincts and keep an eye out for further suspicious activity. Good Luck!

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  8. typical Lucian woman!! what you"ll women have to say about that,because some lucian women refer to us men as DOGS!!!

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  9. If she cheated; at least, she practiced safe-sex; didn't want to bring home anything unpleasant to the man she loves. Ha Ha Ha!!!

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  10. the lube was used cuz she getting something bigger than what you have bro... when she wit u is like needle n thread but with de side fella is needle n banana lol lol

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  11. lol at "after she smelled it did she eat it" "does she hav a dry cat issue" woie LMAO\

    but it sounds suspect tho specially as she tried to grab it from u , goin as far as biting u. dude keep ya eyes open. jus be on alert. something not right.
    some of yall say she using it to masturbate..bt the people been together for 2yrs. wouldn't the bf kno sumthing or wouldn't she be comfy tellin him if it was for that purpose.

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  12. If she knew she didnt do anything y wrestle with the boy chpzzzx she make it obvious already like she said she jus wanted to smell it hmmmm chpzzz dats not an excuse I wud think n say I finger myself with it or sumn cuz he wasnt there buh shes a joke

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  13. Rite now u have you have give the benefit if the doubt it can mean she cheats I don't see y if she cheats y wud she leave evidence right there it can mean while on vacation she bought a dildo she uses that u no nun of right now just watch her without her knowledge

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