Willie, I started cheating on my girlfriend with her and it’s amazing. When I am with her, it’s like we were made for each other. I am so comfortable, but when I have to leave it’s really hard because the thing is I love her and I want to be with her, but I don’t want to be away from my child.
I am only with my girlfriend because of my daughter. The first real girlfriend is willing to be mother to my daughter if I do leave my girlfriend, but Willie I don’t know what to do. She has achieved so much since we broke up and my baby mama has never worked and depends on me for everything.
As a man what would you do?
Dear Sir: So you want to dump your girlfriend because your ex is back in the pic. This is not something I would do or encourage.
I understand you want an ambitious woman, but whose fault it is to be with her in the first place? Now after having made use of the girl, you want to jump ship. Not nice.
What if your girlfriend dumps you because she finds another man who has a better paying job than yours? Would that be fair? I also believe a man’s influence in a relationship determines his woman’s success. Her welfare is also the responsibility of her partner.
His influence may either motivate her to do something or makes her spoiled or worthless. Do you encourage her to find work, help her to find her talent and realise her dreams?
What is also disappointing is that your ex is also part of this plot to hurt your girlfriend. How would your ex feel if this was being done to her?
But you know what, you can do what’s best for you, because if you’re no longer ‘feeling’ your girlfriend why waste your time and hers?
I do believe in Karma, however.
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