“How can he put his tongue in all these places and go home to wifey?”

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“How can he put his tongue in all these places and go home to wifey?”

dearwillie2.0-blueDear Willie: Can a married man love another woman?

I am in love with a married man. His actions seem to be testament that he loves me too.

Recently his wife found out, but this has changed nothing. I still go to his home. We still do it in the car. I feel sorry for the wife at times, especially when we make love.

How can he put his tongue in all these places and go home to wifey?

Dear Miss: Yes, I believe a married man can love another woman. I believe people can fall out of love, in my opinion, particularly if the relationship is unhealthy.

It is obvious from his actions that he does not love his wife anymore. Can he fall back in love with her again? I believe so too.

However his action does not mean he will leave his wife for you. He may still care for his wife but I do not believe he loves her.

More than likely you’re just a piece of fresh meat he is delightfully feeding on until he gets tired of you and find more fresh steak, so enjoy it while it lasts.

Willie

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  1. As a married man who has had affairs in the past, I just find this article amusing. Amusing how you side chics always fool yourselves in to believing that you can ever even come close to wifey. We'll spend a few dollars on u (within our budget) we'll make u feel good with a few compliments or a little outing, we may even get to actually love u after a while, sort of like how a boy loves his pet dog. But u will always be just a side chic. A distraction from the stresses of life. A way to pass the time. An ego boost. Keep devaluing yourselves. And keep fooling yourselves, saves me time and energy in trying to fool u. Now thats the truth

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    • Any man that brings another woman to his wife's house and have sex in it cannot care for his wife much. Any man that licks another woman's body then take that tongue to his wife cannot possibly care about her much. You may think that you are using women because you have the d--k, but believe me, your behind is being used too, shameless man. Most likely you continue to go after women because your wife will not perform for your nasty butt. If she is smart, she would shut down shop. No action for you. Keep your ring and the odd idea that your wife is better than the women you ride. If you really thought so, you would show some respect and do not subject her to kissing a tongue you've put in another women's crotch. So while you want to sound righteous, have several seats, dirty man and wait for the next p---- to s---. If they let you. Nonsense!!!!

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  2. Mad ppl alone now i see y lucians fooled by pastors and politians religion fool daff illrtrate lucians

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  3. Ure just a low life... darling if he doesn't love his wife there's no way he's gonna love u and the same places hes putting his tongue before he goes to his wife might be the exact thing hes doing before he comes too u.. yall lil sex toys jus fail to realize yall are being used for a couple dollars to do nails, hair and go out partying...smh and dont feel sorry for the w wife cause when tht. table turns around it will definitely disfigured ur face.. so my girl go find a man of ur own and shame on u y dont he take u to a hotel..u have no class.... where is the car he bought u? Where is the house he built you sex slave

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  4. Really?! You're wondering how he can go home to his wife after putting his tongue is al those places- I think you are the one that should be wondering what his lips taste of! The same lips & tongue that you enjoy so much *in a bloody car? !..... probably taste of his wife's poom. Dutty gyal !

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  5. woman you need to have some self respect and start thinking of yourself in a better way because there is no way you can email willie on such a thing... are you that blind he`s cheating on his wife with you ... and you talk as if you have win some price but you haven`t aspire to be better and focus your energy on something more worth while trust me the results will be better... bear in mind if you have kids you don`t want them to do these things and if you have a daughter am 100 percent sure you won`t love a guy to treat her that way...... so smarten up and set a good example for your kids and beginning the process of healing now

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  6. If the shoe was on the other foot ...how would you feel woman... do unto others just what you would to be done to you.... think about what you are doing and stop feeling special..... it won't last.... respect the woman.... and respect yourself.... if they break up.... that's ok.... but dont be so proud of being the one to break them up....

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  7. Karma is a bitch always remember that. If he can be this way with you who is to say he is not sleeping with other women too. Always remember one cannot build happiness on someone else's heartache. The same hurt this man is brining to his wife he will bring double it to you. Hope he don't bring you a few letters from the alphabets too: HIV,HPV,STD,STI . Woman you are are sick as this man.

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  8. It is a human ability to be attracted to more than one person at a time wife or not. But I guess these holy than thou ppl who fooling themselves not everybody else don't seem to have that agenda or its easy to pass judgement then you anonymous. But in regards to the lady talking about he putting his mouth everywhere but guess what your mouth is the dirtiest part of your body yes your entire body. I say t his to say lady enjoy your backseat loving on the cab where ever you getting it nothing last forever get you or pleasure as often as you can when you can

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  9. some women fail to realise that some men, married, in a committed relationship or not, will lay their head, eat, sleep, shit anywhere they are given the opportunity. I dont know why y'all think you have the upper hand when you sleeping with another persons significant other, because its sooo hard to find your own right ? kmt, my girl just because you providing him an ample amount of pum does not mean he will provide you with a finalized divorce and an engagement ring, leave people man where yall see them please, yall too nasty.

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  10. My dear, take it from me, you need to wake up and smell the coffee. His name is "man" he is getting a free meal so he is enjoying it.but get this, for him to get this free meal as long as possible he needs to make u feel loved and wanted. So hun, feel sorry for yourself that you have gone this low. His car - no respect for you. His home- no respect for his wife. Thisan clearly has no respect for women and he has gotten you to engage in this respectful behaviour againt your own kind. Talk about divide and conquer. As someone before said, do you know where his tongue was before you? Child please, you have a lot of growing up to do.

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  11. The man takes you to his home which he shares with his wife. You should realize the low down disrespectful person he is.He'll soon get tired of you,like his wife.

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  12. So you think you've won a medal? Keep dreaming. Only a widow knows where her husband is, but that's none if my business!

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  13. If I'm aware my husband is cheating. He clearly have broken the marriage vow.and when a vow is broken trust to me will take a long time to become the cornerstone of the relationship. It shows clearly the man is not committed and this needs to end....my opinion

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  14. Great response Willie, some women are too malicious and disgusting nasty. Women are their own enemies. You have the man using you but yet still you feel you on top of the world. No class or self respect. If he loved you or respected you, he wouldn't be cheating on his wife with you. If you respected yourself, you would get you very own man and stop taking someones else sloppy seconds because you don't know what he does to his wife before you.
    its highly unlikely that he will leave his wife.............move on while you still can.....................you are worth more.......

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  15. Lol Ron!!! I love the ending of your comment ".... The tongue has even less value ....."

    Like Kermit, I sat back sipping my tea while I enjoyed that one! Thanks much!!!! Lmbo

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  16. Honey dont be so daff what goes aroundd comes around at his home itch! Be prepared for the karma bus*honk honk*

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  17. He won't leave his wife for you. Its gonna end soon because he will meet another woman and you will soon be history. Do enjoy it whilst it last.

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  18. I think it's important that while enjoying the experience you keep your expectations minimal and realistic. Women in that position tend not to realize if he can do what he's doing with the woman he married, then he's likely capable of doing worse to you. The reason he can put his tongue where he puts it an make it home to wifey is because the tongue has even less value than the places it goes.

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