In February I took him out for his birthday, which was also the first time we had spent the night together. After that night we kept seeing each other, but he is not keen on having a serious relationship. I did try to push for a relationship but I have relaxed on that and instead just look out for him; if he needs something I help him out. We hang out at times on weekends, have sex occasionally.
What he does say is that women are problem, like he is scared of being in a relationship. I have grown to love him but I am not sure what to do.
Dear Miss: That’s a lucky guy: a girl to give him sex, help, company, and the whole nine yards without being pressed for a serious relationship.
Good thing is that he had admitted not wanting to be in a serious relationship. But before I go any further, I am curious: when did he state that he is not interested in a serious relationship? Was it after ya’ll had sex or before?
I am hoping he is not a player but based on what you said he could pass for one.
On the flip side, he could well be a good person who has had bad experiences with women and is scared to commit again.
I believe if he is really serious about you, after all this good treatment, he wouldn’t hesitate.
My advice is to think carefully whether you want to continue falling deep – too deep – for this guy. Is it worth it? Ask yourself that.
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