“Every time I leave his home he comes back looking for me”

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“Every time I leave his home he comes back looking for me”


Dear Willie:
I have been with my boyfriend for eight years now. We share a five-year-old son.

We live together, but for the past four years he has been seeing some other girl who is pregnant for him now and sometimes he sleeps out with her. Every time I leave his home he comes back looking for me and I take him back. But this time I want to leave for good.

What do you think I should do?

Stressed out.

Dear Stressed Out: If you left him before, you can leave him again. But if you leave this time and he comes back looking for you and you take him back, please lose my email address and don’t write back.

Willie 

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  1. honey, move the hell on, OK. dats not luv. the man eh give a damn cuz u taking the BS and u taking him back. he plug a nex woman and you eh know wat to do? get urself tested and move on. yes u have a son, but how happy will u be in that relationship. kids are not blind. u have to be an example of a strong independent woman for ur son. doh share no damn man

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  2. My dear you need to take a stand for you. Going back to a man over and over only makes you weak and vulnerable. Respect and love yourself enough to leave for good. Develop that self worth from within you. You are worth alot more than you think.

    It all begins with love of self.

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  3. He Want to have his cake & Eat it two.....Woyeee,,, Haaa Sum Women to Blind when it comes to luv tan...stupz

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  4. My dear it is time for you to move on to take care of yourself and your young son. Make sure you have the courts make the two timer pay child support. You need to build a life for you and son, if the dad is good to him try to keep in involved in is life, as boys need to have a connection with their fathers. Do not take the two timer back, the other woman will get hers, I know the guy played his part but she knew the two of you were an item with a young child. Willie is very correct you know what to do, just leave, and may God be with you as is will be very difficult being a single mom. You can do just LEAVE!!!

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  5. I agree with you sally,every one is do negative,serves her right don't bring your problems to man ,take it to The lord in prayer

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  6. you all can comment quick when you love somebody it's not that easy just to walk way it takes time don't judge the girl they have a son sometime we have to think yes she needs to leave him cause he is not good but stop judging some of you are to rude

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  7. aaa.......... avaiitay. you asking what you should about that. the man sleeping around, having unprotected sex and you still asking that ... girl you need a wake up call.MOVE THE HELLLLLL ON HE DONT LOVE YOU

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  8. Darlin its an unfortunate situation ure in, the thing is a lot of women go through this, but u had the courage to realise is affecting you and you're speaking about it. The thing is you love this guy, but you must love yourself first n more, don't waste you life on someone who doesn't respect you and the son you gave him...move on

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