Dear Willie: I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for five years now and I am totally in love with him.
The situation is that we don’t go anywhere (sigh). Every time I ask to go out he is always too busy DJing. It’s like I have to compete with the whole DJ thing.
I don’t want him to give up his career or anything of that nature. I just want some time with him so we can do things together.
I don’t ask him for nothing (such as money or material things etc.).
Is it too much to ask for us to spend some quality time together? What should I do?
Dear Miss: DJs are normally busy at nights, entertaining many females and males. When you signed up for this relationship, you should have known that.
I know most DJs work at nights, so what about daytime on weekends or weekdays? Do you work?
You should communicate with him about your concerns and see what happens.
If he does not listen then some other DJ might entertain you.
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