Dear Willie: I found out about the other women through my friends and my own investigations. When I bring the issue up about his cheating he gets mad and tells me that I nag too much.
When I was pregnant with our child he made me go through hell. He was cheating with a girl from my area and would leave me in the house all alone and be everywhere with her. Football in the stadium, parties you name it. This man is just sick in his head and he’s ungrateful after all I’ve done with him and for him.
Imagine he got to know about this letter and you should have seen the amount of curse words and insults I received. Honestly I’m fed up of all this and he’s not worth it so I’m making plans to leave. And to the judgmental people who commented I bet their bedroom dirtier than mine!
Dear Miss: Thanks for your feedback. And a bigger thank you for agreeing for us to publish it. This should prove to our critics that the letters are all authentic.
Regarding your decision, at the end of the day, you must do what is best for you. I wish both of you could have resolved this amicably, however.
I hope your decision will work for the better.
BELOW IS THE FULL LETTER PUBLISHED ON NOVEMBER 14
Dear Willie: I’ve been in a relationship with this man for about eight years now.
I will admit that when we just met he had a woman, but we still used to see each other on the side. He left his woman about three years ago and came to live with me. We have a two-year-old daughter now.
Willie, I am a bi-sexual and I do all positions in bed with this man. Anything freaky you can think of I do with him. I’ve been with several girls that I bring home and we have threesomes with him.
I am a good cook so he is always well fed. I cook and clean for him. But Willie all that is not enough, the man still finds a way to cheat on me. And what’s burning me is these meg and ugly girls don’t look better than me. Plus the thing is he cheats on me with two to three women. I want to leave him but I always find a way to go back to him.
What more can I do for this man to remain faithful to me?
Dear Miss: A lot of men would love to be in his position.
The truth is men will be men. People do not necessarily change: dogs will be dogs, cheaters will cheaters, especially when they are no longer in love with you. Maybe after eight years, he is tired of you and needs more fresh produce.
You’re also forgetting one detail: this man was a cheater before he became your boyfriend. You caused him to cheat on his woman. So it’s also Karma, which I believe in.
Have you ever discussed this with him? What was his response? How do you know about all the women he is cheating with?
He is the best person to tell you what will stop him. Find out and let us know.
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